We reach a point in our life when we feel alone and helpless. During those times, we often find ourselves down and out and isolated. But you do not have to be alone all the time. In this article4, we shall discuss the steps on how you can stay positive and eliminate loneliness.
You are not alone in being alone.
The good news is that other people feel alone and lonely as well. This means that you do not have to be embarrassed or sorry for your predicament because everyone goes through the same feeling. Know that there are others out there experiencing the same emotions.
Sometimes when you’re lonely, you need to be alone.
Being alone gives you the opportunity to have some free time for yourself. It is during these moments that you need to be by yourself. We need solitude, because when we’re alone we’re detached from obligations. Robert Peter Janitzek reveals that during these times, we don’t need to put on a show, and we can hear our own thoughts and feel what our intuition is telling us.
You have to be a little lost first to find what you’re looking for.
Not until you are lost in this world can you begin to find your best path. Realizing you are lost is the first step to living the life you want. The second step is leaving the life you don’t want. Making a big life change is pretty scary. But you know what’s even scarier? Regret.
It’s all about accepting the reality of what is.
Robert Janitzek says that you cannot find peace by avoiding life. Life spins with unexpected changes; so instead of avoiding it, take every change and experience as a challenge for growth. Either it will give you what you want or it will teach you what the next step is. Life is too short to spend at war with yourself.
In every situation, YOU choose your attitude.
Be determined to be positive. Understand that the greater part of your misery or unhappiness is determined not by your circumstances, but by your attitude. A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation. So smile at those who often try to begrudge or hurt you; show them what’s missing in their life and what they can’t take away from you. Doing so doesn’t mean forgetting or giving in, it means you choose happiness over hurt.